HAPPINESS

I sometimes wonder we try to find out logic in everything we do. Sometimes we are so worn out of life that we curse the way things are presently poised. And we are so sure that things will never be the way we want them to be just because there is no logic behind thinking that way. We know that uur dreams will never be fulfilled because there is no visible path leading to them.
The other day I was conversing with a very close friend of mine. I had an argument that the most important thing to human life is the happiness. My friend was so unconvinced of my views that she ended the conversation by declaring that I don't have enough experience in my life to know about the harsh realities where you have to compromise and it is very difficult to attain the happiness.
Frankly speaking it is this attitude of ours that hurts me the most. We run behind stupid things in life. I have a way of calling them as 'greed'. So obsessed we become of these stupid pleasures that we forget to pursue the things that really make us happy. We , in our heart, know that we can't achieve those stupid things so cover our sense of loss by adopting a negative outlook to life. We start telling the world and ourselves that there is something gravely wrong with the world itself. We let those negative feelings, that negative outlook to surround us and eat us away. It is at that very moment that we become true losers.
Instead what we can do is to always follow our heart. If we start doing things that really make us happy we wil never have to adopt a negative outlook in life. This world shows you hundred ways to satisfy your ego but only one way to satisfy your own self. If we manage to traverse that path we become winners in true sense.Because traversing this path means that we desired victory for ourselves and didn't desire defeat for anybody else and this is victory in true sense. So I still feel that no matter what our happiness is our sole responsibility and we are solely responsible for our happiness or sadness. I wish that my concerned friend follows her heart and always remains happy in her life.